.............PART 2. I THINK THAT A FEMALE WILL TELL THEIR FRIENDS ANY TYPE OF NEWS WHETHER IT BE GOOD OR BAD. BUT WHAT YOU DON'T HEAR TOO MUCH IS FEMALES RUNNING TO TELL THEIR FRIENDS HOW "FREAKY" THEIR MAN IS. FOR ONE MEN THAT HIT FEMALES ARE GAY TO ME. I THINK MEN HIT FEMALES TO SCARE THEM AND TRY TO USE THAT AS A CONTROL TACTIC. BUT THE MAIN REASON THAT MEN HIT WOMEN IS BECAUSE THEY HIT THEM FOR ASSUMING THE WOMAN IS DOING THE SAME THING THAT THEY ARE DOING. THE MEN ARE JUST INSECURE. THEY ARE AFRAID OF REAPING WHAT THEY SOW.

Hey as far as the beating thing goes I would have to totally disagree. I Say this because I have been beating the out of Holly #10 and his brother Dennis #55 (TNT)Momma for about 10 years and she never told anyone.

I think most sistas have a "freaky" side to them and want to let that "freak" out,but at the same time,when she meets a guy she doesn't want him to look at her as being a "freak" or "freaky" initially,so she plays the good gurl role..You will hear I'm not like that,I take my time,Let's be friends first,I don't need a man,etc..etc..Just wait a few weeks and it usually comes out..

Man o man, where do I began. First, I have to agree with some of you and say that being freaky is for someone exclusive. It is not to be shared with every person you come in contact with, in other words, don't be so quick to give it up ladies. How in the world can you share something that's so sacred with any and everybody? OK,OK, I'll make a couple of exceptions...LL Cool J, Morris Chestnut,Terrell Owens.... alright,alright, I'm back focused now!!!!
As for the beating and cheating, self-respect and self-esteem sums it up! The whole reason why she continues to run back is because she been fed that emotional bull crap for so long that she can't see past it....you know the "you will never find another like me, no one else wants you, and you are stupid, ugly, etc"...bullcrap.

In my estimation there is nothing wrong with being a freak...as a matter of fact I think it's something that should be done with great pride. Now as to why women get mad...who knows, just keep it real. There's nothing wrong with wanting to keep your professional game face on, and there nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality either. Now on to the woman that takes dem der a$s whoopings...I never have understood why a woman or a man for that matter would go back to an abusive relationship. I believe self esteem plays a key role, as well as behaviorial patterns(just used to this type of behavior). I only have one thing to say to the women out there being abused...RUNTELLDAT...as fast as you can...Like Bigg Dogg said at least you have some witnesses of his abuse when you kill that a$shole in his sleep.

well in WI you better get a police report, because there is no self defense law, the only way you can get off for killing that man is if there is documented proof of abuse