I'm looking for a male lorikeet to breed with my female I don't want to buy one just lend but have no idea where to start looking
any help would be great

Where are you from? Frankston

Most parrots develop a pair bond and mate for life. Also they would both help in the feeding of the young that hatch. It would be better to buy a male instead of renting or getting a loan of one. It might be more expensive to do this but would be worth it in the long run because they would continue to breed together.