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...hello....I was wondering....and this is just small convo.... .....WOMEN...would you NOT mind buying a man a drink in the club...or would it have to be someone special??
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Hmmmmm now let me think
Would a woman buy a man a drink
Thats a lot to think about
But I believe this with out a doubt
That a real woman wont have a problem with that
As long as you not running game but spitt'n some facts
Dont get me wrong women run that same game too
Talk'n bout uhmm come here and let me holla at you boo
Well dont you want to buy me a drank
That's when you know that her stuff stank
She aint talk to you all freaking night
Now her drink gone and everything all right
Fella's dont laugh cause we just as foul as they are
We go rent a ride and then we say that's my car
Know'en dag gone well we aint got that type of money
We think we slick and we gone get that honey
To me it's all about being real
Dont be afraid to let them know how you feel
Stop talking one another for granted
You cant buy everybody a drink just because you enchanted
Be selective on who you deal with
Everybody cant sip on one little fith.
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Ghost, I didn't appreciate your answer, because it's not true in all cases!!!! I think buying a guy a drink is cool. Of course there are plenty of situations and you weren't real specific with the scenario. Occasionally we go out and someone may buy the first round, why couldn't a woman buy the second round????
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Ghost, why do we have to be free-loaders? If you notice a lady in the bar and you find out she have been sipping on that same drink for an hour and is waiting on a male to approach her with conversation and waiting on that other drink from him, and refuses to have a conversation with a male until he buys her a drink, then end your converation.
I offered to buy a gentlemen a drink this past weekend in a bar, and not to converse with him but I wanted the seat he was in, and I asked him if he would be willing to switch places, purchasing a drink of his choice would be my pleasure if he gave up his seat.
The world is full of hard-working Sista's with class.
We walk into the bar ready to spend, and enjoy the evening, and mingle, just like you brotha's.
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...good point THill#21....now we getting somewhere...and don't buy me no drink and think it's lock for the night.... ...I know Ladies..fellows buy drinks....then expect that ....some not ALL...
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Its not that women don't or can't buy drinks, its simply because when women go out to a club, the men hound them like there are no more women on earth and they feel if they buy her a drink that she might actually either give him the digits,go home with him, or hook up another time. So we as women let them buy as many drinks as they want. But me as a woman, no I wouldn't have a problem buying a man a drink. Hell I get other men to buy me drinks and I give them to other men.
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now stop free loading!!
If men were not so gullible for the “cute in the face slim in the waist” chick then “free loading” would not be an option.
To answer the question I don’t have a problem buying a guy a drink.
Now when I was in college I only took enough money to pay my way in the club and buy my first drink. That ended after the “slim in the waist” was lost.
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Dont think we dont know about that
Dont think we dont know about that
We know all about dat
We know what you do wit dem dranks
We already know what you thank
Some women out there show dey class
Not all men want dat A@@
We just trying to have a good time
We might just think you fine
SO
Dont think we dont know about that
Dont think we dont know about that
We know all bout that
We see you give them drinks away
You gone holla back someday
Sooner or later you gone want to get to know me
Then dem drinks wont be for free
Oneday you gone see us live'n large
Oneday he might be the man in charge
So
Dont think we dont know about that
Dont think we dont know about that
We know all about dat.....ha ha ha (end)
I'm just playing having some fun AAAAAAYYYYY
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I have no problem buying a guy a drink. If he is respectful and the conversation is tight or even if I just wanted to buy him one as a token of my appreciation(maybe he's fine, kind, a gentleman etc.) I dont think a drink is binding between either party and should be taken for exactly what it is and nothing more.
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...well since you asking.....YEP!! I gets LOVE in the CLUB when I do go.....and I have bought drinks and yes,ladies do buy me drinks....because I make them Laugh and I don't sweat them...I give my compliment....then move on...... .....
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Why not? I mean no disrepect to traditionalists (i.e. "the man is SUPPOSED to buy the drinks"), but I believe in this day and age, EOM is the new social philosophy...that is "Equal Opportunity Mac-ing" for all. I would definitely buy a drink for a man...and dinner...if the vibe is right (non-physical, of course).
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I went out to a club in Sacramento, CA and couldn’t get a play (not that I was looking for one.) Folks looking at me like I’m crazy cause I wasn’t trying to holla at them. Asking me where I’m from saying I’m different. But I go to a club in Valdosta, GA and the brothers all over me.
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hummmm interesting topic...Personally, I don't hound when I'm in the club...Everybody in the club is talking about the same thing. Now, let's be real, when someone is kicking so-called game in a club, How many of you hear what they are saying???? You looking them in the face and you nodding your head like you hear them, but you don't. Now, outside in the parking lot is a different story...
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I agree that sometimes men do hound
But tell him you not interested when he comes around
Why wait till the end of the night
After yawll done kicked it till daylight
Or he real cool when yawll alone
You give him the number and tell him to call your phone
Only to find out that the number is fake
Come on keep it real for goodness sake
Tell that man from the start
Dont keep playing games and messing with his heart
Aint no man going to follow you
Let him know up front and he can go do what he do
Fella's dont follow a woman around the club
And please before you go spend that dub
Put everything on the table right up front
Find out if she's pulling a stunt
So if there is no intrest then leave it alone
Peace her out and go see you way home.
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I have np problem buying a drink but why is it the lady buys herself a drink then when the man offers it seems like a much expensive drink than what she paid for, don't go from Seagrams gin to Gray Goose.
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HC Im speaking of when guys trying to holla and you've already said you got a man, showed him the ring and he still trying to hump your leg. What's dat about?
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See Mike that's when you might need to check them, cause I only drink Cape Cods (vodka and cranberry). And I order either Absolute or Grey Goose all the time.
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If you see me in the club and your thirsty....Don't even look my way...I can answer before they can run the question through their heads...NO NO AND HECK NO....I don't drink so why would I support someone else habit.......Now...If we're I got it all night just as long as you're not doing more then matching....
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If thats the case then he crazy and deranged
You better leave him alone cause he might do something strange
Them kind of brotha's gone end up some where in jail
Bet not drop the soap cause he gone yell
It aint that serious to do all that
These are just my opinions and nobody's facts
A man like that aint had a woman in a long time
He out looking for anything he can find
So ladies please dont play no games
Dont even tell that brotha your real name
My advise to you is get away quick
Go tell ya husband lickity split
That way aint no problems when you get home
Let him know about the brotha that wouldn't leave you alone
Cause if he lies and word gets into them streets
It's gone be an ugly scene when you and him meet.
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y'all are a trip!! I'm with the rest of the females, eevn when I know someone is supposed to be treating me, I would always bring enough money for where we were going, and enough to get home, just in case!! I buy drinks for the fellas,I like to share and share alike so I will buy a round for the people around me...
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..."AAAYYYY"... ...nice discussion....and you notice it wasn't any HATING or downing of another TODAY.....let's have a good week...and not let the board get LOCKED down....so until then THANKS....for keeping it clean....see you 2'sday..... ...."CHURCH" ....HC....close it down and the rest of the Justice League...here
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Sorry Madam Prez. I was handling some biz and couldn't get to a computer today. Southern Girl, you are silly as h#ll. I don't know about buying for the ugly guy. I got to be able to look him in the face while we are conversing.
On anotha note, glad to know my sista's don't go to the club empty handed, 'cause some of these men will let you choke first before they offer you a drink. Always have a backup plan, just in case you end up at the club on "broke men's night". Me personally, I have no problem with buying a guy a drink but one is the limit
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DAVIDA(HEY),HC I C U PUTTIN IT DOWN,WADE(WADEY WADE I WOULDNT TAKE THAT FROM DAVIDA)NKO WUZ UP? ITS TIME 4 THA 2ND SHIFT SO ALL U 1ST SHIFTERS U AINT GOTTA GO HOME BUT U GOT 2 GET THE FUNK OUTTA HERE.
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What up PT30, I see you holding it down at night. Keep your eyes open cause you know how they are. Be trying to sneak in on us. Esp the speaker of the house and her flashlight security team.
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DANG I FORGOT TO CLOCK IN FOR 2ND SHIFT PT#30, DANG I HAD COME IN EARLY TO CHECK THE CAMERAS AND FORGOT TO CLOCK IN DANG DANG DANG, OH WELL MS DAT WILL REIMBURSE ME
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yea ugh ok whats up, yawll aint doing nothing. You know me, PT30, Wade, and last but not least the head of security Ex got this on lock. Can I get that cranberry or what?
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Top flight nope. There you go trying to take our title, but I guess thats a colpiment when you on top people trying to make it to where you at. If you want to be apart of our security team all you have to do is ask. I can put in a word for you with Ex I'm sure he would say ok. ha ha ha
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APART OF WHAT, YOUR SECURITY...
NEVERRRRRRRRRR!!!!!! I'D RATHER GET A JOB AT MCDONALDS (IN CHARGE OF ) SO THANKS BUT NO THANKS BESIDES HOT #8 AND I ARE THE REAL TOP FLIGHT YOU AND YOUR LITTLE CREW ARE JUST WANNABEESSSSS
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What I do??? All did was ask her a question....ha ha ha and since you got that fry'n pan out can me and PT30 get something to eat. What you want PT30? How about one of those cheeseburgers yawll be talking about Davida? ha ha ha
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You know I never thought about that....I dont know anyone who has tasted them. Do you? Well I guess there is only one way to find out...Davida can we get two on them burgers.
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OH SO NOW YOU 2 WANT TO CLOWN MY CHEESEBURGERS, WELL THATS COOL, NOW YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF THEY ARE ANY GOOD, TAKE YOUR BUTT TO BURGER KING AND HAVE IF YOUR WAY...
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Davida can not pay PT30 & HC until she pays up to me.(She owes me two of those cheeseburgers)> Davida where is my cheeseburgers at before I come to Nashville and do what HC and PT#) did to you last night. They might not be any good any way. If they was then she would have already paid up. Top Flight lock here up and put here in the kitchen with a cookbook. is going to give her a cooking lesson. us when you ready for us to taste them burgers. Peace1 out.