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What do you do

Man can someone please answer this one. What do you do when your spouse,boyfriend,girlfriend, what ever starts to let themselves go? hair dont get done no more, they start to pick up some weight, they dont dress the same....etc. What do you do?

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First of all check yourself. If you have been holding it tight, then you got to do, what you go to do.

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you have to give them a reason to want to take care of themselves, do all the things you did when you first got together.

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Ball or Fall,is that you if not,Just Wondering,you should ask AMY

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If you are wolf.then you tell her lets go run some laps.

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communication is the best remedy for things like this...if you spouse respect your opinion then she/he will begin to get back on track and then if not you need to seek counseling because something is wrong!!!!!1

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Be gentle but let him/her know how you feel. They may not realize that there is a problem, or there may be a bigger problem that needs to be discussed.

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Plain and Simple, you encourage them. You have to be careful about how you approach the situation so that you don't offend your significant other. Whatever you do though, please don't compare them to others. If she or he is getting their hair done/cut say things like, "Baby, I just love it when you wear your hair up or cut low (for him)". If the problem lies in the wardrobe you can say "Baby, I think you would look good in ..." or "What happened to (your favorite outfit), you know you look good in that". I think encouragement is the key.

Good Topic.

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Maybe somethings the matter.Sometimes if a person is depressed they may just let themselves go.Ask if somethings going on that u haven't been informed of and go from there.Be tactful as well as sensitive.Maybe even offer to start an excercise regiment 4 the 2 of u.Do something special,buy a new outfit 4 him/her maybe that will prompt that person 2
do something special for themselves as well.