Continuance... This is a good subject.. I also have a associate/teammate that does think I know, but when ever I was around my guy friend she would come all around and want to talk and act all friendly, when she does not even talk to me like that, anyway..
....... Just know who you hang around and don't take anyone lightly because when you are dealing with women that are single, anything can happen... They want attention and they want a MAN and will do anything for that to happen....
Womens are scandolous, that why I hang by my dam self. I thought I had a good friend years ago, til one day she try my Husband behind my back, and 
in my face so I had to put that mojo on her a**. Most Black womens hate on each other cause they want what the other woman have. They
cause life is easy for you and hard for them, you have a good job, they got a piece of job. You got a good man, they don't have a man. Face it, women are just jealous of other women, that the bottom line.
Ms.Nashville I feel you on that, I use to love to hang with girlfriends, but after that, I hang by myself, that way I travel along. Me and my Bud Lights, that my friend. 
Me and you might need to hang then, we been through it.... I like MIchelob Light.... Bring me some...
Stop the madness......
You ladies should of been hanging with yourself anyway you know how females is that's why i'm a loner when it comes to females....But for those scandlous men, it takes 2 to rumble so don't just blame it on the females men play a part to..
Nashville Finest #21
No, its ok to hang sometime, but when they cross the line with my husband, that it, no more. Far as scandolus mens, they are some out there, and some good mens out there too, but I can't speak for all womens, but my Husband let me know what was going on, cause he know he got a dam fool on his hand . Ms.Nashville, I got your Micheolob Lights @ the Super Drafts Tourney
Ms. Nashville
Thanks for the shotout...ditto.
I have had incidents with both black and white females who have been real shady, so I can't say one race is more trifling than the other.
Like Ms. Nashville and Gina, I keep to myself and don't allow myself to get caught up in bull****. The good friends, which are not many, that I have are those that have a lot of years behind them.
I learned to keep my eyes wide open 
when it comes to dealing males and females.
I also learned that men gossip more than women
This is for Ms. Miller and Ms. Nashville,
I agree with you both, the less people you hang with, the less your problems will be. Ms. Miller youre exactly right , color has little to do with the hating. You have to feel good about yourself before you can understand how others feel
If I make the trip to the draft with you two ladies, I prefere SMIRNOFS (black cherry) I am looking forward to playing with you two in 2006. Get ready for some more fun and laughs. We need to start getting together for some workouts. All females keep your heads up, your eyes and minds open, because you never know who may be looking at you. My girls know what I'am talking about. May you all have a safe and wonderful holiday!
HERE'S MY OPINION ON THE SITUATION: WOMEN LOOK AT LIFE AS BEING A FIGHT TO FINISH, NOT CARING ABOUT WHO THE HURT OR PUT DOWN TO GET THERE.......THEIR JUST CLAWING TO THE TOP
Hot Girl 11,
All women are not crabs. All women are not haters. Being envious and jealous are human characteristics. Sometimes feeling this way can protect you from getting hurt and walked all over by people you know and strangers. I would compare women to a pyramid, they are always trying to reach the top the best way they can Some may have the need to hurt others in the progress. They do this because they want to. When you get older things of this nature don't surprise you when they happen. I hope you are having a fantistic winter. I guess it will show when the season starts
We all need the Aretha Franklin song on this one- Do Right Woman-Do Roght Man! Holla back females/males.
No harm done Hot Girl 11 when you come across good females those are the ones you should hang with until they do something you disllike or they do something unkind to you. I noticed that you replied in a short time. What is your job discription? Ms. Miller and Ms. Nashville are two females that I enjoy hanging with
I agree all women are not crabs. I have never had ladies friend either. I had my experience at a young age. I do hang with family and play ball with a couple of them. Last summer I had to deal with jealousy from them,it really hurt my feelings. I am always trying to encourage a sister.
As far as the men go, I always think about me being in their ladies shoes and say would I want that done to me.Men only do what we as women allow them to do. My golden rule is if you have someone move on, I don't put my self in the situation and don't have time for mess. True, real sisters/women are hard to find.........
If anyone has heard of Willie Lynch it will explain SOME of the reasons WE as BLACK PEOPLE hate on each other so much,check this out! SLAVE MASTER MENTALITY
"Gentlemen, I greet you here on the bank of the James River in the year of our Lord one thousand seven hundred and twelve. First, I shall thank you, the gentlemen of the Colony of Virginia, for bringing me here. I am here to help you solve some of your problems with slaves. Your invitation reached me on my modest plantation in the West Indies where I have experimented with some of the newest and still the oldest methods of control of slaves.
Ancient Rome would envy us if my program were implemented. As our boat sailed south on the James River, named for our illustrious King, whose version of the Bible we cherish. I saw enough to know that your problem is not unique. While Rome used cords of woods as crosses for standing human bodies along its highways in great numbers you are here using the tree and the rope on occasion.
I caught the whiff of a dead slave hanging from a tree a couple of miles back. You are not only losing a valuable stock by hangings, you are having uprisings, slaves are running away, your crops are sometimes left in the fields too long for maximum profit, you suffer occasional fires, your animals are killed.
Gentlemen, you know what your problems are: I do not need to elaborate. I am not here to enumerate your problems, I am here to introduce you to a method of solving them. In my bag here, I have a fool proof method for controlling your Black slaves. I guarantee everyone of you that if installed correctly it will control the slaves for at least 300 hundred years. My method is simple. Any member of your family or your oversee r can use it.
I have outlined a number of differences among the slaves: and I take these differences and make them bigger. I use fear, distrust, and envy for control purposes. These methods have worked on my modest plantation in the West Indies and it will work throughout the South. Take this simple little list of differences, and think about them.
On top of my list is "Age", but it is there only because it starts with an "A": the second is "Color" or shade, there is intelligence, size, sex, size of plantations, status on plantation, attitude of owners, whether the slave live in the valley, on hill, East, West, North, South, have fine hair, coarse hair, or is tall or short. Now that you have a list of differences. I shall give you an outline of action-but before that I shall assure you that distrust is stronger than trust and envy is stronger than adulation, respect, or admiration.
The Black slave after receiving this indoctrination shall carry on and will become self re-fueling and self generating for hundreds of years, maybe thousands. Don't forget you must pitch the old Black male vs. the young Black male, and the young Black male against the old Black male. You must use the dark skin slaves vs. the light skin slaves and the light skin slaves vs. the dark skin slaves. You must use the female vs. the male, and the male vs. the female. You must also have your white servants and overseers distrust all Blacks, but it is necessary that your slaves trust and depend on us. They must love, respect and trust only us.
Gentlemen, these kits are your keys to control. Use them. Have your wives and children use them, never miss an opportunity. If used intensely for one year, the slaves themselves will remain perpetually distrustful. Thank you, gentlemen."
