This naturally goes over to the discussion of SOUL MATES, if they in fact exist, if not why not ect. I don't feel much attracted to anybody - I wonder if I was a hermit in a past life or wounded. People I have chatted with insist they do find soul mates although rather they actually get along is something else. I go to the cemetary and see the headstones : married forever (engraved in stone). There is a classic Christian New Testiment scenario where Jesus notes the ressurected dont marry and or seek marriage. Much contradictions and confusion ....I dont know what to take seriously or what is just an expression of what people WANT to think of their relationships.
The subject of SOUL MATES seems decidely New Age, at least in Western Philosophy. I wonder how the other parts of the world and other cultures view this. Does this explain "love at first sight" ?